Hear those not on the play field explain how silly those players are just missing goals! How even they who haven’t been in an academy could do better?
Hear all the “normies” tell how all you got to do to stay ‘sane’ is to do so and so, while doing so and so?
Hear all those who have never coped with a loved one’s mental illness/challenges, say how their carers are weak, responsible for its degradation and all?
I mean, the examples abound of such situations right?
Am on my way from Paris and l was reflecting on some discussions l had with some “normies” who thought more about mental illnesses than even someone like me who’s once picked up a knife to end what l thought was my miserable existence.
The thing is, sometimes like in my case, it gets so mixed up and yet almost properly guarded, that those “normies” can’t take it that l mean what l say about it being difficult to understand or explain even by myself.
The more l research about mental illness and challenges, the more l celebrate my mum and others like her, and yes even myself, who have done all they could as care givers.
Just like raising the walls of a house can be easy although the finishing may last ages, so too holistic wellbeing ain’t a given. I mean, even those “normies” can’t swear they’ve never had a stress moment right?
Hence, l don’t think anything is easy to fix just because in my little head and minds it seems so.
Please “normies” do “us shaggy” a favour and sometimes keep those unsolicited hurtful rants on all that should be done to ‘fix’ things. Discussions if open are good but if not opened, then don’t open Pandora’s box.
Thank you and happy sunday