Sahadat my PA, all in one at the office and my Heroine

When you pray for something, you get it. That works for me – and I mean all the time – it may just not be on our time, or the way we want it, but it definitely shows up.

That is how Sahadat showed up nearly 2 years after I started praying for an all in one at the office. Sahadat or my miss as I fondly call her, is the type we call in french “la force tranquile” (the calm force). I don’t know how else to put it, nor show the universe how grateful I am to have Sahadat in my life.

I first met my miss ( She was a Miss for real at the University a few years back oh), when I lectured/facilitated a masters course called The Law of Enterprises in Difficulties. She caught my attention because she wasn’t the smiling type and hardly looked my way when she entered the class. She however never missed a class and answered any questions I asked her. Long story short, I got through her and she became a group leader of an all male team. On the day of their presentation, they all agreed she was a ‘no nonsense leader”. Their group was among the best needless to say.

Here is a line of what she wrote to me at the end of our course: “Thanks for all the beautiful remarks, you are the best female teacher ive ever had…”(unedited)

We kept in touch and one day I mentioned to my miss I was looking for an intern. She started out as one and had gradually morphed into my all in one at the office and my heroine.

The line is definitely blurred between us as in she is my staff, sister, baby miss, PA, and a generous aunty to the boys. Two days ago she was sick, I made her a hefty and healthy breakfast since we were to work from home, made her some ginger/turmeric tea and bullied her to eat. Later I saw she really needed more rest, and so I sent her back home. I asked her if she could have done same for me if I were sick (since she was first refusing my offer to nurse her some), she agreed, and so I asked her why I couldn’t do same for her without having to bully her. She told me in camouflaged words like my son Israel did, that my type of love ‘can suffocate’. We laughed over it, she ate her food and drank the warm healing tea, and then she was good to go back home.

Sahadat has some of my passwords, manages my calendar, is a quick learner and doer and much more.

Working with me from home, my miss is all focused while I fidgit around lol

I am sincerely so grateful for Sahadat. I am no longer the only female in my team at the office lol.

Did I add how humble and grateful too she was? I wish all entrepreneurs a dynamic colleague like Sahadat and I hope we stay on for a while before a bigger and better offer comes her way lol

3 thoughts on “Sahadat my PA, all in one at the office and my Heroine”

  1. When you write about “FRIENDSHIPS”, this is the quality of character you should be referring to. If this lovely lady moves on with her life one day, the FRIENDSHIP that exists between the two of you will never leave.

    Many people socialize; some with large numbers of people. Few have meaningful friendships, however. We are a society that is taught to “group together” to be social. Over the years, we have misinterpreted the “survival” benefit to socializing by defining this form of “gathering” as a way of measuring “FRIENDSHIPS”. True friendship is RARE, yet supplies all encompassing emotional needs. This is why quantity (of friends) is unimportant. Quality determines whether an individual is merely an acquaintance or truly a FRIEND.

    1. And the big irony is, she told me Friday it is imminent when I stopped by her home on my way back from a long walk. We talked like sisters and she gave me some cooked food. What beats such doc. God in this domain has always blessed me, even the ones I only learnt tough lessons from lol

      1. It takes character that has undergone reflection and experience and GROWTH to recognize the IMPORTANT lessons gained from BOTH positive and negative experiences in life. Bravo!!

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