The Virtue Of Faith!

The Virtue Of Faith. It isn’t only a religious concept.

To me, it means that ‘everything’ which gets me doing something, anything whereas I can’t foresee the outcome.

In Vincent’s post above, he brilliantly exposes that virtue to us and exhorts us to seek it (in all Good Faith – as I add).


Are Your Passions and Career Aligned?

I didn’t know how to align my Passions and and Career or rather which one deserved my best.
I must agree it is often a tough choice to make or a challenge to work out. Yet it is worth every dime of our efforts and now Jeff blogs about it so nicely that we are further powered.
Thank you Jeff and I hope we all try a little more this 2014…

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I was once told that whether I am doing something that expresses who I really am, or doing something just because it’s easy or available; the time will still pass. 24 hours in a day, 365 days a year; the clock is always ticking and going. Time will always moves forward, even if we don’t. I learned early on that my life, career and happiness are directly related to how I my time.

1, 5, 10 years from now, we can have a career that expresses our strengths and our highest commitments, or we could still be at the same job wondering what could of been. Either way, the clock continues to move forward.

It is not a race against time, but it is about using our time to build a life that expresses the best parts of us.

We are all so blessed to be living in this tremendous…

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My Featured Publication – My Alter Ego!

I am who I am today, but I am the sum total of what I was yesterday.

I am definitely going to be so much more in the future but I have to credit my past in its entirety.

I am therefore publishing my first memoirs and in all honesty, I am proud to be doing so now more than ever – It is my BEST  Theraphy and I hope it helps more than it hurts.

My Mess is henceforth My Message and My Tests My Testimonies.

Stay tuned and Happy New Year to all!

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Finish Off Well

This is a just and befitting new year resolution, if we missed finishing 2013 well.
As for me, I thank my Father that although I started off the year in tears, I am happy with the way it is finishing.

Vincent Egoro

As we draw the curtain over 2013,and “press towards the mark” (2014), ponder on these words of wisdom from Balthasar Gracia, and strive to end this year well and alive;

You ought therefore to think of the finish, and attach more importance to a graceful exit than to applause on entrance. ’Tis the common lot of the unlucky to have a very fortunate outset and a very tragic end. The important point is not the vulgar applause on entrance–that comes to nearly all–but the general feeling at exit.

Two things bring life speedily to an end: folly and immorality. Some lose their life because they have not the intelligence to keep it, others because they have not the will. Just as virtue is its own reward, so is vice its own punishment. He who lives a fast life runs through life in a double sense. A virtuous life never dies…

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Who WIll Be Better Because Of You?

I have always tried to do this to my besy and l have always received beyond measure …

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The Power of Positive Thinking Quotes

Every day we wake up with this amazing opportunity to give our kindness, love and compassion. Every day we get another chance to make some else’s life better. What a great opportunity to create a life of meaning. This opportunity is a true gift, one that we didn’t even have to ask for, but it’s presented to us everyday.
Are we aware of the power that we have to make someone else’s life better?
Do we approach every day with a service and compassion state of mind?
Is our ultimate life goal to leave the world better than it was before us?
Are we committed to giving the world our gift?
I am challenging you to live deliberately, to live with intention. Wake up every day and proceed with the desire to make someone else’s life better, which by due process – will make…

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My 1st Christmas in Belgium, so much LOVE!

I could never imagine I would spend such a Christmas.  Several things were a first for me, from decorating a tree, to receiving so many gifts, eating oysters and so many other dishes and above all so much warmth and Love.Dec 17th 2013

Decorating my first Christmas Tree, you can read more about this experience here:
With Santa my 1st time everReceiving my first gift from santa clause at a work team party in a job I had almost lost as recapped but for the boss who is a heroine of mine as recapped here:

Next was the Christmas party organized by my university: BSIS “University of Kent Brussels School of International Studies!

BSIS Christmas party With my favorite lecturer – he has also taken me under his wings!

Christmas 131225 Shawl+gloves

I received so many gifts from my boyfriend’s family,  their  quality brought tears over and over : Winter gear like the shawl and gloves, a very warm winter jacket and a huge white bath robe and much more including my first ever smart phone – am still learning my way around that.

My first ever Smart phone

My First Christmas in Belgium

It was a Christmas I won’t ever forget, I who got here in January with no boots and just a lone unfit coat!

All I missed were my little men in my life – “Mes 3 Mousquetaires”.The men in my lifeBut I had the strongest one ever and although for the time being he still prefers only being felt and not seen – hopefully by next Christmas we’ll see more of him.

Thanks to him and his Family I am happier, graced and forever blessed!

Merry Merry once more!All the best for the new year to all especially my wonderful e-family !

Mother Teressa my Heroine of the Season and always!

Mother Teresa (1910-1997)  Mother-Teresa-love-starts-from-family


“Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than a person who has nothing to eat. We must find each other.”


Mother Teresa was a Catholic Nun from Albania who lived and died in India. She said her calling was to belong to the world. Mother Teresa has influentially changed the world because of her compassion for people.

At the age of twelve, she knew that her true calling was to spread the love of Christ. On May 24, 1931 she took her vow to be a nun. Since then on, her love for people became known in her work.

In 1965, Mother Teresa was given permission to start her own order called, “The Missionaries of Charity.” Its primary function was to care and offer salvation for those who were neglected by society.

The Mission Charity has spread throughout the world where they now embark on relief work such as floods, epidemics and famine. In 1969, the Missionary Charity became an official International Association.

Mother Teresa knew no boundaries because she had gone all possible ways to help those that are in dire need. She is the true definition of love and peace and was recently canonized a Saint following the Catholic Tradition.

Mother received over 15 prices in her lifetime including the renowned Nobel Peace Price.

 Mother Teresa (Revised Edition): An Authorized Biography (Kathryn Spink) For detailed reading!

Mother knew no boundaries based on religion, colour, sex and you name the rest. Mother made many smile and especially in seasons like this, it must have meant a whole lot to a dying person here, an abandoned kid there or just a lonely soul!

That’s why Mother is my Heroine of the season and always

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“I’m going to love…

This is what l resolve too and share it with you all wishing you the best for the season and onwards!

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“I’m going to love until love comes back. I’m going to live until life comes back and I’m going to fight until the fight comes back! Because I’m in it to win it!” -T.D. Jakes
It is very important for you to believe that you are greater than any circumstance, obstacle or problem. It’s your life. And you’ve come to far to be turned around!

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Weekly choice, by peers

We can each chose how we appreciate this and so I leave it to you!

Yet I wouldn’t be sharing this if I didn’t agree to a very large extend with what My friend Cohen is saying!

Do read on and please leave a comment…


Self-Victimizing Again?

“Whether it is your weight, your emotions, your spouse, your children, your paycheck–if you continually find yourself feeling angry, resentful or upset by the events in your life, reflect on who you blame for life’s ups and downs. (…)How a person internalizes a particular point of view about control speaks volumes about their ability to live with a sense of wellbeing and contentment. If your philosophy about control is outside of your conscious awareness then you are essentially a slave to it, repeating the same negative dynamics again and again, all the while feeling at the mercy of circumstance. Over time, repeatedly reenacting the same problematic patterns of behavior causes a self-fulfilling prophesy to manifest. A person comes to believe that they truly cannot impact their own future; thereby sealing their fate as nothing more than a cog in a wheel that goes nowhere.”



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This blog is to encourage others that is being victimize, been a victm, or were a victim that they no longer have to live in hidden. I want to share words of encouragement to them and let them know they can come out of their situtaion alive no matter what there abuser is telling or has told them over the years. Some individuals have left their abuser but they are still living in afraid or living in in jail mental; the victim have to get his or her life back. Living behind the wall in public isn't well for them. They have to make a stand for themselves and regain what they lost in that relationship. It will not happen within a week or probably a month. First of all its a learning process, admit to what they lost, and let go of the shame, pride, and bitter. Its up to the victim to want to be a Survior not the abuser.


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