Your last son at age 8 can finally also sew a button on his uniform like his siblings;
Your first son gives your last son home lessons, and this clearly helped him transition from the french system of education to the english system in Grade 4;
When your second son is the DIY chef in the house, and helps even at the neighbours;
When all three know how to cook and willingly help you in the kitchen;
When your second son’s grades in form one are much better than when he had after school lessons from a tutor;
How proud of my sons should I be? How grateful and graceful? Do I focus on some normal incidents of their age such as: naked dancing during laundry, some missing books and, non attendance at doctrine; and miss out on all the miracles and bliss they bring?
Parenting I am learning, got lot to do with balancing various choices and actions, but above all having a real relationship with your children. Even if physically apart (like I once was intermittently for four painful years), a spiritual connection is possible.
Since returning in August 2015, and moving to our own home in February 2016, it has been more of thrilling than not. No enticing or lucrative prospect can lure me to leave my sons again like that.
Be inspired and motivated all ye parents and single parents in the house
I am still dabbling with my different grooves; but I could tell from the work out rhythm this morning, they are coming up slowly but surely.
I was therefore very delighted to read the following in my email like 2 days ago:
I have read your two books, “My Brother’s Journey From Genius To Simpleton” and “My Unconventional Loves.” Equally I just visited your website a few minutes ago, and the Gabriel Bebonbechem Foundation’s website, though I’ve not read much from there yet, but will do so subsequently.
I thought of writing to you because you are indeed an inspiration. When one takes a move to “Make their mess a message” and their “Test a testimony”, it’s an eye opener for others who have faced such similar situations and have withdrawn from the society to stand tall and rather help others with their past experiences. I was moved by the sincere stories in your memoir-book, that I had to give others to read too.
Please continue writing, blogging and speaking too. I believe that just like it did for me, the book will be an inspiration for others too, and a guide book to watch the things they do in life.
And oh, Gabby’s story was so sad, pitiful and… I don’t know how to describe it. The story made me cry, most especially because of the negligence given to epileptics. It was a good initiative creating a memorial foundation to take care of epileptic and mental patients. Please permit me say as a youth, I work with a little initiative called Child Enrichment As Future Leaders with the vision of empowering children, youths and the underprivileged. In our own little way, we can always support the foundation’s efforts and partner in carrying out activities.
A little about me-My name is Che Herbert Ambesi, a Level 300 student in the University of Buea reading Accounting. I love reading inspirational books, novels, plays and Christian literature, and I write a little too. Particularly concerned about the needs of youths and the civil society, I blog about success on cheambe.wordpress.com (Ambe’s Diary), and work with Child Enrichment As Future Leaders (CEAFL), a start up which was initiated by a female friend and class mate of mine two years ago, to see how we can in our own little way contribute to the society (I currently serve as President).
Madam, you are my role model. Keep inspiring!
Happy New Year in arrears,
P.s: Kindly if you can, visit his blog and show some encouragement. He has like half a dozen posts and few comments too lol. He is full of potential and at this rate he’ll sure be up to all he sets out to do. I have replied and I think he is yet to get to his emails because internet especially in that region is a luxury. Hence am all the more delighted to read his email.
Thank you my dearest Joan for this recognition award! You would want to hop on over to her blog …at last I get an award from a sister from the same Motherland lol and for toppings, she was crowned Ms Cameroon SA 2016…
Hm, This week is really awards week and nothing is spoiling that mood. Monday I blogged about the Gbm blog (which I run for 3 years now), awarded top 50, and now this is for me wow… I know I blush at all these awards like a novice to the convent… yes that’s me lol . ok now enough with these chirp chirp chirp: The Rules
1. Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog
That was paragraph 1 of this blog… bear with but with age and activities writing to my guise is gradually going out of fashion lol
2. Write a post to show your award
Ha my sister Joan, is this one too a rule when I am already doing that no matter how haphazardly or brief a post that may be?
3. Give a brief story of how you started your blog
Real rule now, oh I wish I could easily find one post in my over 750 which has such a history brief or which way was that… ok brief history – now those are not the same thing here woman. Anyway, briefly, I wanted to keep a formal brief of my history here on earth. So much I’d been through near choking me within, so much I was still going through in as roller coaster and fun fun cum cry cry as anything, and yes so much I am looking forward to assuming and hoping I live to a brief but ripe gracious age – and so I decided to start blogging et voila…
4. Give 2 pieces of advice to new bloggers (I confess to having left out the 5th rule about nominating others etc because as I keep saying I don’t have an award hype network given my age and …)
So, The answer to the 4th rule is straight from my soul:
Do your thing and click publish before you change your mind – laugh at and enjoy the ride;
Read and comment on other blogs if you want to receive same, it may not be same crowd but yes Karma exists even in the blogospher.
I think Joan actually nominated me for two awards although I don’t know if both awards were to be accepted together. Out of laziness and want to accept another award over the weekend, I stop at this for now…please stay tuned…am once more so grateful and motivated to keep doing my thing dear Joan
Ain’t I a darling to be accepting two awards back to back? Check out my first acceptance here if you wish:
Disclaimer: Out of laziness and yet wanting to officially accept my award, I did a lot of copy work: ( repeat from yesterday – can I plagiarize my own work?)
This isn’t my first nomination for awards on WordPress, but I am happy to receive them even if I can no longer be sufficiently gracious and grateful with the awards as in yesteryears. I however still try to make it a priority to formally accept them on my blog with answers to all the questions (oh my 11 in this case as compared to um 1 yesterday) – Much copy work again
The above being said, let me start by following other protocol (rules is the right word and they they use it no nonsense) to be observed before I answer that questions now – so let’s get going: Same copy work problem oh
A word of; no a basket full of thanks to The Diary of a Muslim Girl for nominating me and finding my person and all over the place work inspirational. This means so special and I feel so blessed to the extent that I have pliagiarized some of her writing (at least this makes up for the award being cashless lol). This darling of a lady is one to be watched, please check out work even if you didn’t want to follow another new but globally hyped blog!!! Copied with innovation lol
Rules are as follows –
Thank the person who nominated you : Just did above
Answer your 11 questions : Will do in a minute
Nominate 11 bloggers for the challenge : am going against this rule (and the next one) unfortunately and dare I say fortunately; I am now in that category of bloggers who don’t candidly have time to nominate bloggers and … and also I don’t have that network of award loving people who would answer any questions and pass same on
Give your nominees 11 questions : See 3 above to the end
Questions for my nominees –
Describe yourself in one word : Merry
Coke or Pepsi? None
Desk: messy or organized? Organized
Pet ownership – which is better? Dog or Cat? Both; I wish they could cohabit peaceful and so enable us pet peeves to keep them both
Things to do – which is better? Sing or Dance? Both: though my voice sometimes relegates me to dancing while some of my moves will make singing less worse
Are you always early or terminally late? My internal alarm beats all alarms
What is your favorite book you read as a child? Cinderella – made me dream and still dream to this day
What is your all time favorite joke? Ain’t worth joking about
Who is the funniest person you know? Trevor Noah
What is your favorite word? Amen
What is your least favorite word? F—
Oh, answering those questions was pretty fast now – I therefore thank my darling Nusrath again for nominating me, and my I was even the first in her list of 11 nominees. She makes me muse with nostalgia and some melancholy of that 18 year old me – but am glad I got to her amazing blog with those awesome photography and such mature content on all even subjects including Geography (wow I cound’t stand that subject in school) !!!
Yuppie, two more posts and I ‘vamose’ for the summer
Disclaimer: Out of laziness and yet wanting to officially accept my award, I did a lot of— em no just some mild to moderate copy work :
This isn’t my first nomination for awards on WordPress (But am always nostalgic), yet I am ever happy to receive them even if I can no longer be sufficiently gracious and grateful with the awards as in yesteryears. I however still try to make it a priority to formally accept them on my blog with answers to all or the lone question asked (like in this case: bless the founder of this award’s soul).
The above being said, let me start by following other protocol (rules is the right word and they use it no nonsense) to be observed before I answer that question/challenge – so let’s get going:
A word of thanks to The Crack Indian for nominating me and finding my person and all over the place work inspirational. This means so special and I feel so blessed to the extent that I have pliagiarized some of his writing (at least this makes up for the award being cashless lol).
Now a bit of introduction about Cramm for those who dont know about it…
TheCramm award was created by Liv, the owner of theCramm. Such a pious mind to create such a terrific Blog. Fellow bloggers go and check it out. You won’t be disappointed. (Plagiarism in toto – Marie guilty as suspected)
RULES TO BE FOLLOWED:
Include a little bit about who created this award (with a link) and mention the person the who nominated you.
Share 3 things that motivate you to blog and share 3 people that motivate you to blog as well
Share one thing you hope to do that will improve the world
Answer your challenge question
Nominate your choice of bloggers and give them a challenge question.(I am going against this rule unfortunately and dare I say fortunately; I am now in that category of bloggers who don’t candidly have time to nominate bloggers and … and also I don’t have that network of award loving people who would answer any questions and pass same on)
1. I ALREADY DID THAT.
2. THREE THINGS THAT MOTIVATE ME:
Passion for the Written and Spoken Word
Passion to vent and share and inspire cum motivate with whatever I know or don’t know
Passion to learn for ever and ever from one, sundry and the universe.
3. Three People who Motivate Me to blog
I sincerely didn’t start off blogging motivated by anyone per se other than my zeal to vent to the world
Now, I am motivated by my zeal to keep reading and writing past the logical age of reading and writing; and to be candid this takes constant practice lol
Ok as for people, em now all my e-family (as in all who hop by to read/like/comment/reach out you know) motivate me to keep blogging.
The Challenge question for all the Nominees: – Why did you start Blogging? Your answer should be in no less than 100 words…(Bless you again)
Ok in 100 words here I go:
I had secretly written my first memoir in December 2012, and when I got to Belgium in January 2013 I realized I could publish that memoir via the Amazon. Discovery number something, and then I started think of not really marketing but letting my story and life and all out on a more regular basis!!! There was and still is so much going on in and around my life, I have simply come to baptise it my ‘Thrilling life’!!! Now, who living a thrilling life and self named Merry Marie wouldn’t want to share that life with others? Not me o, who loves to inspire and motivate, in appreciation to the universe from whom I have been so inspired and motivated. I snooped and sniffed and bingo I heard of WP and even Blogger. I dabbled with both and WP has survived over three years of my putting us through my moods, books wagon and hmm mental health advocacy.
So, I have so far written 159 words and I think the crack indian who nominated me wouldn’t be disappointed.
And here I land dear gentle readers and followers,
I have one more award to accept and then 2 more posts before I ‘vamose ‘for a much deserved summer break YUPPIE!!!
Hello world, it’s 18 days already into this month which is Mental Health Advocacy Month, and am enjoying my efforts at raising awareness.
I mean, in addition to writing and networking for such a ‘complex’ subject which I am passionately passionate about (oh yes I am), I have had the honour of guest blogging and now am even published in a magazine oh wow.
Two full pages to write all I wanted on the topic
And it could not have landes on a better date. Today I am not only working from home because am tired of commuting into town with all that ‘crazy traffic’, but I also had to deal with 2 ‘mini’ stressors this morning.
Let me sit back and leisurely read this magazine. LEGIDEON is published by some dynamic sons and daughters of my native land in the diaspora; and it is Succulently labelled “A Washington DC Based News Magazine” – you can log in and read online.
Keep doing what you do and enjoy yourself in the process… All the best to us all – take care of your mental health
When you embark on a mission as delicate as advocating and fighting myths and stigma surrounding epilepsy, you are always very honoured when your efforts are recognized.
It was therefore with with utmost pride that we received a request for collaboration in the current journal article of the most renowned Lancet Journal for the Lancet Neurology.
The Lancet was first published in 1823, and is today one of the world’s leading medical journals (for more information see http://www.thelancet.com/lancet/about). The Lancet Neurology is a specialist neurology journal within the Lancet stable. Launched in 2002, it quickly became the foremost clinical neurology journal in the world (for more information see http://www.thelancet.com/laneur/about). Published both online and in print, it provides clinical research articles, news and in-depth features on neurological topics, and this makes us all the more proud to be featured therein barely a year after embarking on our noble but challenging mission.
In this month’s article of the Lancet Neurology, the caption is all solliciting of dire attention: “Plugging epilepsy knowledge gaps in Cameroon”.Kindly take five minutes of your time to read the full article here.
Below are excerpts from the article. It begins by pointing out the alarming statistics of the disease in Cameroon, higlights some misconceptions backed by sample data, and goes on to mention work done on the field by different stakeholders including Gbm:
The prevalence of epilepsy in Cameroon might be the highest in the world. Figures of between 4·9% and 6% are commonly quoted, although values of over 10% have been reported for some areas…Demons, curses, and witchcraft are commonly thought to be the cause of epilepsy in Cameroon. A study of 505 adults among the general population placed witchcraft at the top of the list, with 13% of Muslims and up to 23% of Christians citing it as its origin… A similar study involving 920 secondary school pupils found 26% of the children to believe the same…The same studies also reported 65% of the adult group and 50% of the pupils to believe the disease to be contagious. The methods of transmission cited included waste gas (39% and 15%), saliva (34% and 55%), blood (10% and 36%), and sexual intercourse (10% and 15%) …the Gabriel Bebonbechem Foundation for Epilepsy and Mental Wellbeing (Gbm, Douala, Cameroon) has recently announced publication of its own handbook in October, 2015, this time for teachers. Produced with the help of Cyrille Nkouonlack, Government Neurologist for the South West Region of Cameroon, it aims to tackle the misunderstandings surrounding epilepsy in schools. “An epileptic seizure in school can be a very stressful and stigmatising event in the life of a child”, explains Marie Abanga, Country Director for Gbm.
Gabriel Bebonbechem’s story is our natural baseline, and yet his story could very well be that of any other unfortunate child in the country. Such recognition by the Lancet Neurology is therefore both encouraging, and yet further challenging. We at the Gbm Foundation can therefore not relent our efforts as we strive to intensify efforts to fufill our objectives while forging other national and international partnerships.
I think I have received the cream of creams now. When I started blogging, I remember visiting a blog on blogger where this Award was displayed with a dozen or so others. I just admired and wondered to myself if I would ever get one of those. Maybe I admired the Liebster Award most because of it’s ‘Germanness’? (Emm, whatever that means). So imagine my stupor when on reading my dear Phoenix the rebirth’s blog and seeing my humble and modest blog as her first nominee for this prestigious award!
The Liebster Award recognizes new, up and coming bloggers who have a certain number of followers, ranges from 200 to 3,000. (I am not even there yet but already this noticeable? Wow)Liebster is German meaning “beloved” “sweetest” “dearest”. Essentially, I like to view this award as acknowledging some of the “sweetest” bloggers who connect their blogs to their viewers in a welcoming and hearty fashion.
If you wish to accept this award, the following guidelines are below. There is no pressure to accept the award. I find your blog genuine and would like you to know that I value your honesty and content.
The steps for The LiebsterAwardare as follows:
Thank the person who nominated you for the award! A warm, hearty, & standing ovation thank you to Tempest Rose for recognizing the good in my blog!
Add The Liebster Award logo to your post and blog.
Answer 10 questions provided to you by the person who nominated you.
Provide 10 questions of your own for your nominees to answer.
Nominate 7 bloggers for the award and notify them.
**These are the general guidelines. With that being said, you do not have to do the full amount to accept the award. You can answer and/or ask only one question,nominate one person, whatever you feel comfortable doing. ** (This I love most because I know many don’t have time to do them awards ‘school’).
And so dearest Phoenix, I am most grateful, humbled and fortified in my journey. One of my dearest venture being Mental Health Advocacy. My story says it all and I stigmatize all those who out of lack of ignorance and empathy, degrade themselves or humanity further.
These are Phoenix’s questions and I choose to answer all of them:
Questions for my Nominees to pick and choose to answer:
If you were stranded on an island and only had 3 things, what would they be? Faith, Hope and Love
If you could change one thing about your country, what would it be? Stewardship
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? My Depressions
If you could try something new today, what would it be? Water Surfing
What is your life mantra? Honesty henceforth until death do me part
What is your biggest fear in life? Dying too soon before laying a strong foundation for the work I’ve embarked on
If you could have dinner with one person (alive or deceased) who would it be and why? Ellen Johnson because she is my idol
What is the most beautiful place you’ve ever seen? No place external like my Soul
Name a song that describes your life in a nutshell. My Way by Frank Sinatra
And my two nominees are:
Theresa Reed at http://theresareed15.wordpress.com/, she was there on one of those dreary nights when I couldn’t sleep and my tears and anguish were threatening to ruin my vacation (and yes, this is trumpeting a post).
and my friend over at Pieces of Bipolar: http://piecesofbipolar.wordpress.com/, She describes herself as a unique girl in a unique world and am glad she sees herself so. There is so much positive in pampering and upholding one’s self albeit in all honesty.
So my dear nominees, if you accept my nomination, I leave the same questions above for you to choose from or answer all!
Dear gentle readers and followers, to me it is always all about gratitude. This blog’s life has been sustained not only by my three D’s, but above all by your direct and indirect support. Really, I want to say thank and wish each of you could accept this Liebster Award too.
mum, author, mental health advocate, therapist, inspires & motivates with personal experiences