Single mother journey, parenting challenges, ah courage don’t pass us by…

#motherhoodunplugged #Unscripted #parentingchallenges It’s been barely a week or so when I was last at my son’s school for an incident of disrespect to his teacher. Today I was back for two incidents with his classmates. It’s not easy and am not one to pretend it’s picket fence orderly in my life and ours. Being a mother to both my kids and even myself, is my most important occupation. I have and will continue to give up so much to raise and nurture my kids and focus on our journey the most and best I can. It’s challenging and sometimes disrupting +embarrassing to be seen in their school every other week, but if I don’t do that, the consequences might worse case scenario be irreversible, so the hour I spent there today was worth it. Sometimes we even think they went to school and got into the school, whereas they are hanging out of school or even doing whatever. Checking their stuffs daily is challenging too, or abandoning them to their freedom might not also be the wise thing to do. I wonder what the parents of the kids I saw hanging out of their school think their kids are doing at the moment.
Courage to all parents and guardians in the house. I don’t seek to be a perfect parent or have perfect kids, I seek to keep it real and nurture us all my best capacity.

Do your children know your story?

#readingisfundamental #personaldevelopment #children My son is already on my third book wow. He started the first one on his birthday 08.10.21, he had told me he planned to start reading all of them when he turns 18. Same thing with his journal from me. He is studying the sciences at school but has as diverse an interest in life like myself hahahahaha I am simply so blessed to see my first son have such #determination , #discipline  and #dedication  at this age. Nurture them young and watch them bloom their best ooooo. Let them know your story, your struggles, your strengths, your challenges, your celebrations. I am actually wrapping up my 8th book dedicated to him, because he is the biggest inspiration behind that project.

Motherhood unscripted; my first project

#motherhoodjourney An 18 year project. Tomorrow I officially hand it over to my first child and wish him all the best into adulthood. When I started this journal 18 years ago, I didn’t know I will get to this day, but I just wanted that he gets something from me where I recorded monthly and as often as I could, my unfiltered thoughts about what was going on in my/his/our lives at the time. This journey has been so therapeutic for me and I know he has appreciated my efforts because he’s told me so time and again. I share to inspire motivate and encourage. God has been so good, I am simply