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What do you want in a partner?

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Muse with MAG: What do you want in a partner? (04.05.2020) Is this a tough question or what? When should it be asked or even discussed? I think a lot of disillusionment sets in a relationship when the partner we thought we had doesn't have what we want. And if we didn't outline that nor discuss them during the dating or courtship, we start looking elsewhere as in being unfaithful, or we break up with them and then move on to next where the cycle might as well repeat itself. Soon, our mental health gets challenged and depression sets in. Today, I know what I want in a partner and they better know what they want too. We can and should discuss that, agree on what works for us and reevaluate progressively as we grow in our partnership. If a potential partner is not expressive or intellectually stimulating for example, we are not even taking off. And of course there is so much more. Indeed, I have a checklist and what one has called a questionnaire hahahaha. I would love a partner who is not jealous and lets me be and do me, just like I would them o. One who checks their ego often and not try to restrict my freedom period. What a sweet partnership that would be lol. Anyways, dear reader do you know what you want in a partner? God bless us all o AMEN #whatdouwantinapartner? #Iamfreedomandlove #IamMAGnectic #MAGinspires #MAGmotivates #MAGisintentional #MAGtakesthelead #AttitudeofGratitude #makeitmatter #mentalhealthmatters

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Marie Abanga aka MAG likes to describe herself as a “Jacqueline of several trades”. She is an everyday woman and mother with a zigzag profile. Let’s give it a try! She is an Activist, an Author, a Coach, a Consultant, a Feminist, a Lawyer, a Lecturer, a Prince 2 Project Manager, a Psychotherapist, a Philanthropist, a minister of the Word of God and...! She just loves to sum it up by saying she is a person of passions and a tale of talents. Her life’s journey has filled over 6 books already and her three musketeers keep her busy at home. MAG is also the founder and CEO of the association Hope for the Abused and Battered, and the Country Director of the Gabriel Bebonbechem Foundation for Epilepsy & Mental wellbeing. The plethora of life's experiences and shenanigans she has lived through and learned from in near 4 decades of existence, have equipped her with such an arsenal to coach, train and motivate just any and everyone. She is so charismatic, dynamic and full of life, going by her designed mantra of 3Ds: Determination; Discipline and Dedication. These sum her+her quest to be the best version of herself and impact others perfectly. She attributes all her wealth of knowledge to her conscientious attendance of both informal and formal school.

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